I must say that things are going great. I am on antidepressants, dh and I see a counselor and I see a counselor on my own. My little one is getting so big and doing more. I haven't had to see the step kids AT ALL!!!!! Dh is still getting dd every other week and our paperwork for separation, child support and custody is complete. I thought it was going to be rough not having dh here and having my baby 50% of the time but it isn't too bad. The step brats are what made life rough. Without them and the mess life is grand! Dh and I are still dating. He plans romantic dates for me and sometimes we get a sitter and sometimes we bring dd. Counseling is rough though. Dh still defends his hellion. Hopefully we can move past this soon. Thanks for all the advice.