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rozylady2's picture

so my ss blocked me on his Facebook page because his sister and i got into it again. she didn't like when i scolded her for being rude and then i shut her phone. omg its Armageddon! anyway she blocked me then he blocked me. i thought we worked things out and she added me back but she named her damn bm as her mother on there now.did you know Facebook does not even step mother or step father tab?) so i had to let it go for she added me back thing were ok for a short time.
after much talk with h and my feelings about the issue with ss because i even tried writing a email to him asking him why do you hate me so much. can we call it a truce.he ignored.H changed his Facebook password to get in added me back. i told your wrong in doing that.you need to tell him your boss of this house and what your doing to your stepmother is wrong.he says he didn't care he would tell him after.im thinking OMG so not even five minutes later in comes yup your guessed it!ss all on fire and ready to kick some butt!
he was standing behind me in a rage.im freaking out staying and H just sits being the calm calling his name to get him to stop but ss wasn't hearing him. ss screamed "your not going to do to me like you do with my sister. im not having it. my Facebook. my privacy and my life then he storms out! i looked at h i cant believe you sat there. im scared because he was right behind me. you did nothing h only turns around signs out ss changed his password so his doesn't even know his password and what does his sainted grandmother say to h.why does she need to be on there? he doesn't get a right to choose? im like whaaaaaat! H tells his flipping out and mentions a behavioral hospital and she detours him again with the i`ll talk to him routine. she doesn't want him to place ss in that hospital for some reason for years.
the next day i forgot what caused the confrontation but ss throws it in my Facebook about the email i sent.he said it in such a nasty tone saying it was guilt trip.lets jsut say it didn't end. i ended up whirling on H told how weak he is. he is lord and master in this house but you do nothing. you pay the bills, control nothing. you allow your mother to control things and she doesn't even live here! he didn't saying anything.
lately i been confronting MIL on Facebook for her being meddlesome ignoring my biosons and and the list can go on. she will never admit nor acknowledge she is out of place. so after today(story on another thread) i blocked both skids and her on Facebook.i had enough of it all.

Jsmom's picture

I had to block and defriend SD. I can still see her if needed by logging in as my son. Only use that if needed for court and to make sure she is not harassing him. Just defriend them all and life will be easier. I would also disengage completely from these kids.

rozylady2's picture

i blocked him,sd and my MIL. sick of it.i know it will bother H especialy with his mother but im done.i can see both thier profile son H`s pc if i need to ut other then that.not my kid not my problem

stepmonster_2011's picture

My SS15 pulled a few stunts with FB early on
1. signed up without permission from his father. Ok - so condition of having a FB is that we have to be able to Friend you and "watch" your interactions. (same for my daughters)
2. used it to try and tell me that his dad was doing cocaine (while I was on a biz trip in Russia) - resulted in him losing his FB account (his dad told him to delete his account), crummy SS deactivated it - but then would re-activate it on the regular while at a friend's or at school. He neglected to understand that I still had him tagged in photos - so everytime he activated/deactivated I could see it on how the tag looked. So after he was busted for that - he lost all internet privileges (and home computer use) without supervision (for school).
3. did I mention I busted him for porn as well? I am prolly on some pedophile watch list now - because his searches "kid sex" (dumbass doesn't realize that it is ILLEGAL)

When he lost his privileges we took his passwords and changed them. I also realize that he could always create a new account etc. but he's not creative enough for that. And I search for him on the regular. Call me a stalker. But he's also not once made any effort to get these privileges back.

I would recommend if your SD and SS can't behave on FB - then they lose it. (or as other suggest un friend them and stop worrying about what dumb teenagers say.)

Good luck!

rozylady2's picture

i tried taking the internet but i get the whole world crashing on me and i get a first class visit to hell.H defends them because he feels i over stepped my boundaries and his mom started telling me to stop disciplining them. so i am nothing in this house. not even a valid adult!the run it all because of her. in another way she runs my house and she doesn't even live here.