I hate my stepdaughter!
My Partner and I have been together for 12 years.
My SD, now 17, came to live with us 4 years ago...since her mother kicked her out.
Orginally, I had such high hopes that things were going to work out... of being a mentor for this girl. A friend and someone that she could turn to. Hah...yeah right.
All was good as long as I was handing out money but things went west when I took her to task for stealing from me constantly.
She is the most mendacious person that I have ever met...no I take that back. Her mother lies just as much.
We live in a very small town and as such it gets back to me all of the time the horrible things that she is saying about me.
The names that she calls me and the lies that she is telling about me.
She moved out about 10 months ago because she could not follow her fathers rules. Even though she does not even live with us,
she continues to talk about me behind my back.
She has just started having regular meetings with her father and he on these occasions has decided to bring her home for the day.
My problem lies in the fact that I absolutely resent that she is coming into my home as though she has done nothing. I hate every
minute that she is around. I hate every time that she phones and talks to her dad.
I don't expect anyone to respond with anything but distain to my posting. I know the logical response to a posting such as mine
but I guess I just need to vent, stamp my feet like a little immature child but I really have tried with this girl and I feel
that she is so unfair and somewhat feel betrayed (illogical, I know) by the fact that her father is still thinking that the
sun shine out of this girl rear end.
I do not think that I have felt this hateful and resentful ever before and I do not know how I will get over it. She will always
be in my life by virtue of her father being in my life. AHHHHHH
Thank you for listening. Sorry that I am being so hateful but I really do hate this girl.