I haven’t been to this site for a while. My SD 16 hasnt been held accountable her whole life. When she is at our house we try to include her but all she does is sit on her compuer and watch tv shows. For the most part I roll with it. She is not my daughter not my responsibility. The times when I get fed up is when it start to effect my BS 5 behavior and the questions/statements I get from him. With all of this being said her BD asked to let the dogs out and she said no. She didn’t have make up and she didn’t take a shower. I then asked her to help unload the dishwasher. She then said no. I then told her if she doesn’t help with either I willl take away her electronics. She said she doesnt care so I took them. WWII broke out then. I’m so frustrated that BM and BD haven’t held her accountable her whole life. It is always easier to give in. I get it, but what are you teaching her? She was at our house for 3 weeks the only chores we ask her to do is either let the dog out or unload the dishwasher. She has let the dogs out 3 times and unloaded the dishwasher 2. To top it all of SD tells me and BD we are bad parents and we let BS get away with everything. SD mom told BD to pay SD to spend time with my BS and he did! Urgh. Since I’m so evil she has packed up her items and is going to her moms house. I’m upset with how I reacted and the drama in my house. On the other hand it’s horrible walking on eggshells too.