So at some point after me & DD fell asleep last night, SS came home. I think it was after midnight but don't know & don't care when SS came home. I'm just counting down until he's gone, but that has to be broken into realistic chunks of tasks. This weekend I've accomplished most of a To-Do List but the big one I've avoided is money. Somehow I have to tell DH that I'm splitting the money so he can manage his own money, without resenting me for not being on-board with his spending. I plan to have my income deposited into a new checking account, DH's income into his own new account, and our current shared account becomes our shared Hoisehold Bills account. I told DH a few weeks ago I would be doing this, after another convo where DH is focused on his next sports car whereas I am focused on my desire to one day retire & own a home outright. We did FPU last year but haven't been doing the monthly budgets, even though we have no debt and are Snowballing rhe car payments. 

In the meantime, SS18 comes & goes as he pleases (last night 2nd night in 2+ weeks he slept here), apparently still has his part-time job, and has less than $200 saved for the gas & insurance he'll need to cover to attend CC, which starts 8/25. He doesn't even have a drivers license yet, and CC is 30 miles away, so I'm wondering how rhis will go down. I want to separate money & stop worrying about my $$ going toward enabling SS18's prolonged adolescence.