Stepfather stuck in Rock and Hard place
This is my first post and I am not to caught up with all the acronyms yet.
I have been a step father to my kids now for 10yrs, we have a 21,19 and 14yr old. I am just about at my end with the way my wife parents and I can't wait for the kids to be out of the house. I know I don't have much of a say in some things about her parenting but don't think I can stand it any more and the more I can't do anything the angrier I get.
This was the latest
We came home to our 14 SD having sex with her boyfriend. I have been telling my wife for awhile they are getting way to close and we need keep an eye but as you see this has not been enforced very well. Everything was handled very calmly and my wife had the "talk" again with her. After everything went down I talked to my wife and say we had to strictly enforce their time together which she agreed, this was Thursday. She left on Friday to visit her Dad came back on Sunday and had Spring Break for the rest of the week. I came home on Monday from work and ask where everyone was and my wife said or SD was running around the neighborhood and would be home for dinner. I continued to make dinner, she got home she was with her boyfriend and my wife invited him to have dinner WTF.
Trying to keep this short but she has been hanging out unsupervised with her boyfriend all week and I cant believe my wife is allowing it. This is driving me over the edge what can I do????