She is refusing having SS evaluated for autism
My husband was diagnosed with autism last month. SS exhibits literally every sign of having it. SS had also said he feels different, he thinks he has "adhd or something" and wants to get tested. He told us both this and also said he asked his mom but she said "you are too smart to have anything like that"
So, DH told her he feels he has to be evaluated, gave his assessment of SS and told her he would like to have him evaluated.
BM said "SS is happy and engaged with me, he's a wonderful young man and I don't agree with your assessment and if he's acting different with you, that is the real issue we should be addressing"
She literally doesn't care about these kids. All they are to her are pawns to try and make DH look bad anyway she can. Insane.