How to navigate until court?
So long story short. HCBM feels there is no "parents time" with custody. That it's the kid's time and their lives should not strain because their parents are divorced. So, basically if the kids want to do baseball, other sports, make plans, do this and that and 10 other things ... they get to do whatever they want and mom and dad should work around THEIR schedule. She feels this is what it means to be a parent and the kids needs and wants are always the first priority. She is livid that DH remarried and has us as a priority and she feels their kids should always come first. No matters what. What are your thoughts on this? Thanks!