Vacation without stepgrandson
StepGS's bio grandmother engaged in PAS (parental alienation syndrome). She taught him to see me as evil, a drunk, selfish....you name it. I have been forbidden to speak or be with him for a very long time. I disengaged from all of them.
I thought it was going well, but DH is acting all upset at ME because stepgrandson isn't here on vacation with us. . I told him he can see him. anytime and to take him to the ocean without me. Further, I told him I am not a doormat, have been VERY hurt by them, but DH brings is all back to him and says "I should have my family here". I've spent 20 years of having his family. Why would they want a "drunk" around the stepgrandson? Why, all of a sudden, do they want to "lift the ban" so I can take this grandson on my only 2 week vacation of the year ?
The kid clearly does not like me and told me so. Said ALL kinds of hateful things about me and made sure bio grandmother knew.
I thought I was going to be supported. But, DH is angry.