Update on text message sent before Christmas
Yes its true, the text was for only 2 things.
1. To try and get gifts and then stay out of our lives still.
2. To give the little ones gifts so that she could say to all her friends "Look my Dad and SM ignored me on a holiday and I even went to the extent of buying my little sisters gifts, feel sorry for me and give me more free stuff"
I figured this one out, its not important how but I figured it out. Oh and by the way the so called gifts she said she dropped off at my parents and sent me pictures of what they were for my little girls, were NEVER dropped off at my parents. She was just waiting for me to say oh where I can I mail the check to you.
She has not changed yet. Also she doesn't care about her little sisters, before the disengagement happened, every time she would see them she would barely acknowledge them. However before the drug use, the boyfriend, the life of crime she was a good kid and a wonderful big sister. What she doesn't realize and I will not let her know this because I want her gone for now, my kids are starting to forget about her. They only ask about SD22. DD8 told me she is scared of SD19's boyfriend and doesn't want her around because of him.
Ok went off topic but wanted to update that no she wasn't trying to come back into our lives because of the baby, she was wanting us to give her gifts and then walk out on us again. We have played this game for 4 years, this time, we were smarter.