So My Partner Now Wants To Get All His Kids Round To Sort Out The Issues From His Daughter's Wedding
Thank you for everyone who has responded to my first post. I have disengaged from his kids and unfriended them on FB, it has taken them about 2 weeks to notice, he challenged me this morning about it as he said I am now alienating myself from them, I reminded him that I told him I was disengaging from them a few days after his daughter's wedding.
He now wants to bring all his kids and their partner's round on Sunday for a meeting to sort this issue out. I told him it had nothing to do with the rest of his kids, only to do with his daughter as she had organised the wedding all by herself. I also reminded him that he could have prevented all this by sticking up for me on the day, he then admitted that he felt he could not do anything on the day for fear of causing an upset at the wedding. He is trying to get things back to the way they were before the wedding, I told him that will never happen and he is welcome to have his relationship with his kids but I don't have to have a relationship with them.
I think his bullying tactics are starting to show again, he said he is in the middle of it all and it is upsetting for him, I said to him, well they were upset with a post I put up, so by removing them from my friends, they will not see anything else I post and from now on, also, friends don't treat people like this, things are not going to revolve around his kids and I really don't care if they are upset with me.
I feel I am going to be railroaded into meeting with them all, what do I do guys as I really do not want this?