So The End Has Come!
Well, the end is now here, he has told me he wants to split, I am seeing a solicitor on Saturday morning, his damn kids got their way. I am currently gathering all financial details and told him I want the villas and timeshare in Florida sold and I want 50% of the money.
I found out when we were on holiday that he had been seeing a woman he had an affair with (whilst he was still with his wife) the whole time he has been with me and tried to tell me that she was just a friend - yeah right. I went digging in his emails today, he walked out on Tuesday evening and told me yesterday he stayed at his mum's, however, I have found a hotel booking for 2 adults for Tuesday night and one for tonight, so no doubt he has got another woman in tow and probably has had for a long time.
A few years ago, another woman called Angela all of a sudden was coming to parties and was in contact with him, he told me she was just a family friend, however, at one of our party's she was all over him like a rash. I found an email from him to his bank giving her nearly £10,000 to pay off her car, and it was not a loan, but a gift>
I certainly have been a mug for 11 years to put up with his shit and be disrespected by his kids, but, I am going to try and take him to the cleaners, he has money stashed in lots of different accounts worldwide, a huge pension and lots of properties in the UK.
Any advice please, if there is anyone in the UK had this experience, I would love to hear from you too.