More drama and games from YSD
SSIL's parent's were visiting YSD and her family last week. As per the usual from YSD, after they leave she posts about 60+ pictures on FB with lots of comments about how wonderful they are, how much they love them, enjoyed the visit, and so on
Always does this when SSIL's parent's visit
And on the occassions BM has visited she had done the same, even including BM's now ex (pretty sure an ex due to OSD finally getting rid of him) SO. How much she loves and misses them, how great the visit was, etc..
On the occasions DH & I have visited, she has never posted anything at all, with the exception of a picture of her and DH and how much she loved the visit with him, loves and misses, him.
Not one pic, not one comment, not one word about me of course.
After our visits this did hurt my feelings at the time to be the only one excluded. Especially considering she doesn't seem to like her MIL very much and came right out and said on more than one occasion that her FIL is nasty. Yet even they get a big shout-out and as for me, someone she suppossedly likes (good one!) not one word. Even more disgusting when I think of whenever we have gone to visit I have done so much for her and her family, from a pile of gifts, to helping her with cooking, shopping, cleaning, running her around on her errands, bying them dinner, buying their groceries to help out, going pretty much wherever she has decided to drag DH & I. This list goes on
So basically she posts with tons of love and kudo's to her parents, step-parent with the exception of me of 23+ yeas in her life, and her parents-in-law of about 6 years
So glad I've finally disengaged from her!
She has always put on a big show in front of DH and for DH that she really does just love me, or certainly a big show of how "nice" she is to me, so I always found all her slights, alienation, exclusion, and downright hurtful rude disprecful behavior towards me 'confusing'....that is until I realized that confusing behavior was actually passive/agreesive and at this point, I simply have no interest. She can post tons of great things about every single person in her life with the exception of me, or only of me LOL, I truly no longer care