My stepson moved from out of state with his girlfriend and two children in November. Originally they were staying with my Husband's ex-wife until she got put out. His ex-wife is staying with a girlfriend who lives 2 hours away. My stepson didn't want to follow his mother. (I should also add his girlfriend and children are staying with her parents but my stepson was not welcome to stay since they are not married). My stepson is 25. He's also very spoiled and seems to have this entitled attitude. He was begging his dad to stay with us in December (after he mom lost her place). My husband and I have a very small apartment with a yorkie. Aside from the size of our place, I generally did not want anyone to stay with us. What we ended up doing is letting him stay in our old place (since there was a month left on the lease). I figured he could save his money and when the lease was up, he could move into his own place. When that lease ended, he again asked to stay with us and was arguing his father up/down that he should be allowed to stay. This was causing friction between my husband and myself because he wanted to help his son. I felt adamant that he should go ahead and stay with his mother even if the commute was longer. Finally I relented and told my husband his son could stay with us. That was about six weeks ago. What we recently found out is his son hasn't been saving any money to move. His son does work so I didn't understand why he wasn't saving anything. His son also doesn't do a lot around the apartment. He comes "home," plops on the sofa, smokes weed and watches tv. Part of the reason he said he wanted to stay with us was so he could see his children. He honestly doesn't see them much. He uses up all our body wash, tooth paste and toilet paper and never replaces it. I didn't ask for rent money because I wanted him to save but also feel like he should help with incidentals every now and then. Fast forward to a couple days ago, my husband talked to his son and told him he had two weeks to find a place. His son said ok and then asked what if he didn't have a place (not a good sign). Later his son asked my husband why did he put his wife before his son. My husband replied he had already raised him and he's a grown man. My stepson seems to think he's owed something. My stepson doesn't have a room. He sleeps on a futon mattress on the floor of our living room. I never get to enjoy our big screen tv anymore because when he's not working, his son is plopped front and center watching some sports show, with weed in hand. I don't say anything to him because he's not my "son" per se and I don't feel comfortable. I feel like he's ungrateful for the things we've done already and next Saturday won't come soon enough. I do feel a little anxious because I don't know if he's really going to move. My fear is he will make things difficult and all I want is our place back. I've heard stories of how hard it is getting someone to leave once they move in and I see the signs written all over this situation. I guess I'm here venting because I've never experienced this situation before. How much more does a person have to take before they can have their place back?? And why would someone want to stay somewhere where they aren't welcome any longer?