Has my deposition yesterday
It's was literally stupid. HCBM had her attorney ask the same stupid questions she's been complaining about for years. It's old news that has been resolved in court but she spent the whole days having him ask me ridiculous things. I dropped SS11 off at his baseball game and they asked me if I think it's appropriate to drop an 11 year old off at a baseball game. Yes. Every parent does it including HCBM. They asked if I think it's appropriate that DH "paid" SS for a back rub. Omfg! This has been resolved! SS said "hey dad I'll give you a back rub for $5" and he karate chopped dad's back and HCBM was "concerned there could be something going on" I was like "yes I think it's normal for kids to karate chop their dad's back. My kids have certainly given me a foot rub for Mother's Day. What I find concerning though is that your client sexualizes the children over normal affection between a parent and child. Why does her kind automatically go to something repulsive where any other parent understands this is normal" ha! They asked me over and over over again about our dog. Dear god this woman never lets it go! Our sweet little 20lb. puppy likes to play with the rope swing and SS jumped on the swing and the dog went to grab the rope but nipped SS in the back of the leg by accident. It was innocent just like everything else but of course HCBM made it seem like she "attacked" SS. This has been explained to her over and over and over and over. She's still asking about it. What is wrong with her? They asked me if I was aware that the boys were "gifted" and asked if I know how to "handle" gifted children. I was like "I don't even know what that means. We handle all the kids the same" they asked about my kids and if they fight and if my husband and I fight. I mean it was purely to try and humiliate me. It was cruel and disgusting and nobody even understands what she was doing. I do. She's sick. I held my ground and was very professional and did not flinch at anything. I brought up how she sends my husband messages full of insults, shaming, ridicule ect.. and said "this is not how healthy people communicate" they tried to stump me. I didn't get stumped once! I answered everything with confidence and assertiveness. I told him "we are a happy healthy loving family just trying to do our best by these kids in a very difficult situation with someone ready to accuse us of wrongdoings at every turn. We have a wonderful support system around us including amazing therapists and I am very proud of the way we have handled ourselves throughout this process. Your client is not healthy and it shows in everything she writes. I don't know what else I need to tell you or what else you want me to explain but I have answered everything" he said "let's take a break" then came back and said we were done. They got nothing because as much as HCBM wants to believe our house is a house of horrors there is NOTHING wrong with our wonderful family. She is a monster. A complete monster.