Well looks like we might have to cancel our only family trip this year
What would you do? Here's the situation. We have a temporary CO. HCBM lied to the judge and told her DH doesn't take the kids to sports. We did not know she would lie in court about this so we did not have our evidence ready to show that was a lie. Not only does he take them....he's their coach. She justvoutright lied. So, now DH is court ordered to take them to their scheduled sports which is fine since he lives taking them and did all along (what HCBM was referring to is when she signed SS up for another sports team on top of the other two he was on and DH would not agree because it was oversceduling and overlapping his other commitments) anyway. So now here's the situation:
they are doing basketball and it stated that the season is over on January 23rd. Well they have made lots of adjustments so figured "oh looks like no championship games this year because of Covid" so we planned a trip to go to the mountains to hang at a cabin on the weekend of the 28th. However, DH just received an endil that said championships will be the weekend of the 30th. This is the first we are seeing of this so we have a few choices:
1) cancel the whole trip and we do have other kids involved who are very excited to go so this seems unfair. Plus we would lose hundreds of dollars cancelling less then 2 weeks. Or
2) We all go and DH brings them back on Saturday and me and my kids stay the rest of the time without them or
3) tell the coaches we already made plans for a trip and we can't do the championship but his will this look in court?
this was the only weekend we could go with custody schedules and baseball starts the weekend after so we would be in the same boat.
what would you do??