Change in BM living situation
dh and I were in court last October for change in custody. Since 2008 we had ss every weekend and Wednesday overnight. When ss turned 9 we gave up wed and 1 weekend due to ss getting older. We live approx 25 miles from mom but different school district. At the time BM was living with husband and ss half sister for past 5 years. BM has always been incredibly difficult and majorly hypocritical. On weekend we gave up she would send ss to grandparents every weekend. When court hearing was over we were given same schedule with a mortgage sized child support payment each month. This is due to mother and stepfather being college graduates but neither work full time job, meanwhile my husband works 60 hour weeks. Since October hearing, BM has separated from husband and lives in subsidizing housing and works 3 days waitressing. She already has new boyfriend who she tells ss is her personal trainer, lol. BM has ss m thru fri afternoon. Ss stays with grandparents on tues and thurs and sat one weekend out of month. We have ask BM to allow ss to live with us and go to school with us where ss stepsister and half brother, but she refuses even though she's not with ss more than 3 days a weeks and her parents are majorly helping raise ss. My question is does anyone know what chances are of us getting full physical custody and our home is more stable. Do judges even care that BM has men coming in and out of child's life. My husband spent a lot of money over years on attorneys for custody and is always shot down so he's opposed to going back unless we have a good chance at winning. Any thoughts? Thanks in advance!