Has anyone dealt with parental alienation syndrome ? After 6 yrs of being step mommy to 10 yr old boy I have come to the conclusion his bio mom is a raging narcissist. You are basically never allowed to question her or he parenting. Since she an My husband split she has told her son lies and many twisted truths. She is constantly trying to diminish our credibility an hubby family as well. Relationship with stepson an My husband has been very rocky since he was 4 and this basically happened overnight after the split. I think my stepson may be starting to realize his mother is a liar although he is still fiercely loyal to her. When dealing with possible alienation what can you do to attempt to gain custody. My husband has been to court once and had bad experience and refuses to go back. I see a conflicted boy who doesn't know what is real and what is false. Any advice is appreciated.