Was everyone else's Christmas as crappy as ours?
Not sure if I mentioned it, but we recently moved into a new home. All the kids have their own rooms now. Although SS wasn't happy because apparently his room isn't as nice as the others.
I've had it with his attitude. BM is still being a pain. My husband ended giving in and telling her he is willing to take SS for extra time again.
She took great joy in rubbing in the fact that she won. She now alternates between us or my in-laws having SS on her weekends.
My in-laws are completely snookered into the who SS is a poor victim ploy. They cleared out a room just for him. It's really ridiculous.
This is our Christmas to have SS. Christmas day we had to go to aunts. But we are waiting and waiting and SS is still not dropped of yet. My husband goes to their house and no ones there.
So we all pile into the car and drive the 4 hours to my aunt's. The whole drive I'm trying to call BM using my husband's cell phone.
When we are 30 mins away from our destination my husband's cell phone gets a call from OUR home phone!
It's SS. Apparently he was waiting outside our home for an hour and ended up going inside because it was 17 degrees outside.
And how did he get in you may ask? Especially since he didn't have a key?
Well, he smashed the bay window in the front of the house and climbed in. I was speechless.
My husband quickly dropped us my aunt's and drove all the way back to get SS. He was frantic. My in laws weren't in town either. I called my friend in the meantime to go get SS.
SS was angry that he was made to wait outside in the freezing cold and refused to come back to my aunt's. My husband came all the way back to pick up us up the next day. He didn't even get to spend Christmas with us.
My husband also decided to get a separate phone plan for SS because BM cancelled the one she was supposed to be paying for.
I cam home to see my bay window shattered and covered with cardboard. All my plants were dead. Every single one of them. I was so upset.
My husband called the cops but they said it's not a crime. She left a child in freaking 17 degree weather. What is wrong with them? My husband intends to escalate.
SS is at our home now for the rest of the week and he is still fuming about Christmas and it's been a nightmare having him around.
We both feel so defeated. It's never ending. My husband told me yesterday the biggest regret he has is having a child with a woman like BM. And that maybe we should move away to escape the drama.
Congrats BM. You are successfully driving your son's father away from him.