update and a question.
Papa Fox called BM tonight and directly asked to have her email him with proof that she was diagnosed BPD. Turns out that's actually legit. Good to know. He chatted for awhile with the boys and they all seem fine, but the oldest did say BM and her husband are verbally fighting a lot. And then he asked me if I could email him new books and we had a bit of a chat about the three marketeers. *warm fuzziness*
So, my question now is, knowing there is unrest in BM's marriage and that she is out to be shitty to her husband, and he is crazy jealous of Papa Fox, is this a good time to push for a visit with the kids?
Side story about her crazy husband, he does his best to ALWAYS one up Papa Fox, and usually fails. Even the oldest has commented about it. Papa Fox bought a new harley, crazy ass went out and got a shitty dirt bike. Papa Fox got new riding leathers, crazy ass went out bought a bomber jacket from goodwill (according to SS 14). He brags constantly to anyone who listens that he stole Papa Fox's wife and kids because he is the better man and father. So anytime Papa Fox has tried to see his sons, something always comes up.
The kids have only been in BM'S custody for 2 1/2 almost three years now, because Papa Fox left Oklahoma for a year (known in advance to BM and their lawyers) to help his Father expand his maple syrup business, and that's when crazy ass ran to court with BM and filied for abandonment of the boys. Crazy ass runs BM when she's taking her meds for BPD, she goes damn near totally submissive (according to BM).
So now that she's good and mad, is it time for us to push?