Stepson's Fiance Says She is "Disengaging from US?
Does anyone else see how funny, and incredulous this is? It has given us a good laugh.
The other night my DH was speaking with his son about his fiances rude and inconsiderate behavior towards us. Also, about how the SS is rude to me.
We had just received an "save-the-date" postcard from them announcing their wedding next year. It is a notice that is sent out before the formal wedding announcement. The postcard was addressed only to MR. DEAR HUSBAND.
My DH was letting his son know that he found this very offensive and rude towards him and me, his wife. His son was being dense.
I took the phone at one point, because the stepson was speaking about my posting here on these forums - and that upset my SS.
My SS was telling me how upset he was that I was doing posting here, and I was trying to calmly explain to him it is my right to post here - besides it is anonymous.
The conversation got strained, because he just couldn't see how he and his fiance were wrong to have searched for me here, and then have the gall to expect an apology from me.
My SS's fiance took the phone from him, and proceeded to "correct me" in my thinking that it was OK for me to post here. SHE didn't like it. Well SHE was the SNOOP, and SHE should mind her own business. I told her it was HER problem, if she hadn't snooped, she wouldn't have to read what I write. Of course she is in denial.
The conversation got around to how disrespectful she had been to her future father-in-law my DH, at his daughters wedding. This fiance had been the Maid of Honor for my DH's daughter.
The fiance's answer to my comment was "I had decided to 'disengage' from the relationship'!" :O Her reason for disengaging was because of what she had read here on these boards.
I almost laughed out loud at her. Here is this 22-23 year old snit,
correcting me - someone twice her age - and then acting like she is the "victim" and thus she needed to "disengage" from us. This ws reason for not treating her future father-in-law with respect - or me, his wife!
She has never been INGAGED since the first day we met her. She has often rolled her eyes at me, and treated us with disrespect. I could tell it was a new word she learned here on these boards. At least she learned something from coming here - snooping on me.
I still shake my head and laugh to myself at her brashness. What a self-important clueless person!
There is no dealing rationally with such a person.