Normal for teen girl to sit of SD's lap??
We were at dh's cousins house this weekend and his teenaged stepdaughter (somewhere around 14/15 yes old I'd guess) sat on his lap several times. The stepdaughter also would wrap her arms around her stepfather's neck in the pool and like hug/cling to his back.
Does that seem weird to you? It does to me. Heck, I'd find a t odd for a biological daughter to act that way with her own father at that age, let alone a step situation. Cousin has no l been with the mom for 5 years tops, so its not as if he raise this girl from birth or anything.
I mentioned it to dh on the way home that I found it inappropriate and he didn't see anything wrong with it. Said he would not think it was weird if sd10 sat on his lap. So I countered with how would he feel if she was sitting on and hanging all over bm's boyfriend? He just stared at me like it was a stupid thing to ask. I just said how I wouldn't have done that with my own father at that age, and it was weird to be all over an adult man, any man other than her boyfriend, at 15