I posted earlier in Fed Up. Things here are not minor, by any means. I found a journal where SD15 writes about how much she hated me, everything is my fault, I make her life miserable, she thinks of killing me, wants to get rid of me, by killing me.
Two days ago, I told H that I was done. I have reached my breaking point. I cannot live like this anymore. He got very angry at me when I told him that it was his fault that I am sitting here, broken. He told me he is getting her help, meaning he did take her to a psychologist. But even that was made clear that, it was just gonna be him talking to them at first. They believe she may have ADHD, which is BS. It goes way beyond that.
Anyway, yesterday I got her computer and she sat there recording our conversation and saying things that I said, for instance, my D24, when she was 13 or 14, she did something horrible, I took all of her privileges away. She had her bed, a few outfits, nothing else. She had to earn it back, and she did. Lesson learned and she never did it again. SD15 said on the video what kind of mother does that. This goes on for a while, you can see her get up and then come back to the video, each time giving an update on what I "admitted", she marked the video as evidence. She has called social service before, and it went nowhere, they didn't even come. But it is clear that she is A. Going to kill me, or B. Trying to destroy me (her own words).
I believe she is a socialpath, I have read a lot on this and she meets every one of the symptoms. With a ton of examples.
I read a lot of stories on here and I honestly am envious that that is the only problems they have. This is a child that kept bottles of pee in her room and poured it on my clothes, will lie about things she had told me, will lie and say my fault, told me a grand of a story about hateful things my MIL said about me. Had physical hurt my granddaughter 2 at time, and showed no remorse at all.
This is a scary place to be, I was brushing my teeth and when I looked up SD15 is right there in the doorway, scared the crap out of me. She smiles, she likes it, and says oh you didn't hear me? I need toilet paper. I didn't hear her because she didn't say anything. She was damn near touching me she was so close.
H took her to his dad's for the week, it is spring break here. But then what? How do you make a patent see just how messed up their kid is? I just know that I will not live in a house where a kid runs the show, I do not have it in me.