Marrying someone with debt and poor finances.
What would you do if the person you love, not only has kids, but also has a lot of debt and is also bad with money. For example my gf has a lot of credit card debt yet she continues to take her kids out to dinner and lunch to eat regularely and shops at expensive grocery stores. She also continues to buy her son very expesnive shoes and sunglasses that he ruins or loses quickly and she will replace them when he ruins them. He is 9. How owuld you approach this situation?