How many women would be ok with this type of behavior from your bf/husband?
Say your bf/husband has children with his ex. When picking up/dropping off his kids he always goes into her house and hangs out for 15 minutes. At kids events they sit together, laugh together and joke together with one another including about how obnoxious his parents are. If his ex wife needs something picked up at the store he will run and get it for her and drop it off at her house even though she is plenty capable of doing so. Would you be ok with this type of behavior if you were in a relaitonship with this man?