I told my Bf that on paper he is not a good package deal.
Sometimes I feel like Im expected to put up and shut up, I told Bf that Im a much better catch than he is, I have absolutely no baggage, where as he has 2 kids from 2 mothers, he did'nt like that lol, he needed to be reminded though, Im not saying that children are baggage, I mean the stuff that comes with them, Bm's and so forth. I used to put up and shut up its true, but I've found my voice now, I've stopped taking Sd to school, she was so awkward it was exhausting and that was just twice a week, I used to take care of 2 skids full time and a full time job and they were no trouble most of the time, I loved them to bits, I went into this relationship thinking, I've done this before I can do it again, add to the mix, a guilt parenting Daddy, a bitch of a Bm, an Sd6 who is basically mannerless and so strong minded and rude, hmmm it is so different this time, do these parents realise that they are not the catch that they think they are sometimes? I know that if I had my own child, I would teach them to respect my Bf, so why dos'nt he do that for me? After being expected to be "Mummy" when it suited him, I've told him Im Mummy all the time now, I will be respected and I will be listened too, its early days yet, we split up last week, we needed to do that, Bf says that he gets it now, well we will see.