How much more would you tell her?
Kids have their first field trip at day care "camp" this Friday. BM emailed DH saying she was picking them up early Friday to go get new military IDs (since she left the old ones in our mailbox and the mailman took them).
He reminded her they have a trip so she'll need to get there before 9am or after 3pm. She has a copy of the calendar with the schedules. She emailed him and said, "Just tell them not to send the girls and I'll get there when I get there". So the skids have to sit back at day care until she makes it up there?
DH told the director this morning she'd be picking them up early and the director said if she's not there by 9am, the skids will be gone. They don't have personnel to keep kids back for the parent's convenience. It's in their handbook that if parents do not want the kids to attend the field trips, they have to be kept home.
SO .. DH has pretty much said screw it .. he tried to tell her, she blew it off. She has all the info as well as the number to the day care. Let her drive all the way up here and kill some time until the skids get back ..