His child is his EVERYTHING.
I'm so lost right now . I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and his son is now 2 . I met him when he was 1. The kids loves me but I hate to say this ... I can't stand him at times . Part of me faults his father . Let's start off with he gets him not just EVERY WEEKEND, but EVERY MORNING through the week . Monday - Thursday 5am-5pm then Friday - Sunday 24/7 . He works at 5pm so I seriously have NO time with him . I have brought it up a couple times and he just says " I choose to have my son " . I don't think it's fair that his BM gets to go out and have fun & lay up with whoever all weekend ! The kid even sleeps in the bed with us even though he has his own bed . He makes him sleep on his chest so I never get cuddled at all . He's always right there . He also has a obsession with his son which makes things worst . Anytime we go somewhere he's taking a million pictures to put on every social media account he has . Constantly brushing his hair , constantly changing his clothes , he was making him get haircuts at 1. He then post online and says things like " my son is better than every child " and he tells him this too . Tells him he is the best , you look better than all the kids , etc. From my view he is building a monster . He gets every thing he wants . He cries and screams in the stores . At home if he doesn't get what he wants he wil HIT ME & he was also called me a " b*tch " . I know some says he's just a kid but to me ... no ... he is BAD ! He picks up my things and I tell him put it down and he will just throw it and sometimes it will break . You can't sit him down because he will run around . He's not friendly at all . He wakes up screaming for juice and his favorite words are HELP ME & IM HUNGRY every morning I'm woke up at 8am. I think I'm losing my mind really . I have such a good heart and I've tried my best . My boyfriend tells me to whoop him but here's the thing ... for one I don't even see him doing that ! So that would make me look like the bad guy and for 2 I don't feel like I should even have to do that nor do I feel comfortable whooping another woman's child . We aren't married . I'm also put at the bottom when it comes to his son . I'm talking he goes out and gets food for him , nothing for me . Tells me in my responsibility to make sure I eat . He will call and he will tell me he's taking him to a water park ... I'm not invited . Actually I'm never invited when it comes time to the fun things . I just find out from a call or I find out from social media because he post everything. The BM is ghetto ... but we have no issues with each other . Another thing is we went out and was a shoe store and he showed me two pairs and asked me which ones I like more out of the two ... I was thinking he was getting them for me and I kid you not we pulled up to his BM house and he gave them to her ... just like that . I'm in such a bad position . There's so much more but that's the just of it .