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theoutsider's picture

I can't believe I didn't see it...

I am numb, don't know what is going on... He wants therapy. Church sunday was about second chances and he asked our minister to meet with us and he and I are going to counseling tonight....

He surrendered his phone to me and out of curiosity I looked through everything.

He has been emailing men and women and trans for hookups and handjobs...
He does not know I know yet about it all 100%

overworkedmom's picture

Just to be clear, you husband is an in the closet Gay, who is sneaking around?

If that is what is going on, I am so sorry. Get yourself tested for STD's stat and just give yourself some time. Chances are that he never wanted to hurt you, he just is who is is- a zebra can only hide stripes for so long.

ctnmom's picture

That is what I suspected last night. (I'm the one with the gay brother.) Please know, you can't "fix" or "change" this. Don't be his "beard". Sad