Enjoy making BM mad! Should I feel bad?
I used to think it was bad to feel this way. Every time BM would "throw a tantrum", yell, say stupid things, leave nasty notes, play games with visitation, etc., it used to distress me.
Then it dawned on me that she was doing these things because she felt she was losing. Losing face, losing control, losing money, and she was. She just lost custody because she behaves this way.
Now whenever I see her, I can't help but smile. On one hand I feel like, "Good for her. See what you get when you act like a stupid b*&(%!" But on the other hand, I feel a little (just a little) guilty about it.
What do you guys/gals think? Btw, DH loves making BM mad too because of everything she's put us thru and doesn't lose sleep over it at all.