Am I over reacting
I'm with a man who I love and adore and can see a future with. He has 2 kids both 17. One boy and one girl. I have 3 children. A 27 year old son and a 22 year old daughter. My first son was 4 and passed away. I love children and have always done everything I can to help any child in need. The situation i am in now frustrates me to the point of crying and debating if I should leave. We are perfect together but he had a 17 year old daughter who is lazy and extremely spoiled. She does absolutely NOTHING but play on her phone and sit. We have tried to get her involved in things but her answer is always "no..I dont want to". If her dad pushes her or gets on to her the first thing she does is start crying and screaming "you dont love me!" She sits . The recliner and barks orders out to her dad and brother "go get me a cookie..go get my blanket...put my shoes on....I want starbucks....I dont eat leftovers....I need my nails done, give me 40 dollars". Am I being stupid by thinking things will change or am I being selfish? She doesnt go to school either. She will be with us and be perfectly fine...until it's time for school then she suddenly has a headache or is "throwing up". I feel so helpless
His son is polite and makes excellent grades. I dont get it.