Dumped for not being a "good enough" stepmom (heartbroken)
I wonder if anyone can relate. I was recently dumped by my boyfriend of over three years for hurting his little girl's feelings. I was nothing but nice to his kids however he dumped me after he became very angry with me for being sarcastic with her after she kept talking back to me and I had finally had enough. She was rude to me the entire day and I went to the store. When I got back she played the guilt trip on me and said she missed me and I had ignored her by going to the store. I replied sarcastically and said something to the effect of quesitoning her motives. She started crying and he said I was rude and made her cry. She told him I was mean to her when I was not (I was always nice to his kids and they were not always nice ot me in return) and he believed her. I am heartbroken as I put three years into the relationship and had gotten to know his kids very well. He said I was distant with his kids and even his mother agreed with him that I was too selfish to be a mother. This really hurt my feelings and I feel very ganged up on by people who supposedly loved me. I am not close to my family so this really hurt. Please note anytime we had not been getting along he would ignore me as well as his kids and he would take them to do their own thing and completely leave me out like I did not exist and even for stupid reasons and I felt instantly cut out of his "family". I never thought this was healthy anyways.