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Did you know I’m a narcissist?

megpennysil's picture

Apparently I'm a narcissist for......refusing to pay for my bf's kid even though she has two parents who have good jobs and are working and able, standing up for myself when my bf has rage anger outbursts, refusing to do or go along with everything mil says and does, refusing to allow his daughter to be rude and disarespectful, calling him out on his lies and inappropriate behavior. I guess that's what defines a narcissist? 

Iamwoman's picture

I agree that this is gaslighting at the very least. It sounds like your BF is a narcissist. Narcissists are very good at twisting things around on people. I just about fell out of my chair when I heard DD's HCBD call another human being a narcissist. I'm sure you're feeling similar right now...

megpennysil's picture

Yep. Everytime I suggest a differing view on parenting or bring up his kids behaviors or god forbid I don't want to spend all of my time off and money revolved around his child I am labelled a narcissist by him and his mother.