Is it forgivable to be raged at and broken up with?
I was raged at, called names and broken up with because I refused to pay for my boyfriends kids meals and because I disengaged after his daughter was rude to me and made rude snide remarks towards me. Is this forgivable and what kind of man does this? He accused me of being a narccisist for standing up for myself basically and used old family traumas against me while raging at me(he told me I was just like my father who was emotionally and mentally abusive towards me most of my life). This really hurt but I got to thinking maybe I am a narcissist because I stood up for myself and I do not think I should be subjected to his child's rude behavior and I do not think I should be paying for his kids meals. Anyways I noticed he is struggling with money and he tried to hit me up for money after we broke up saying I owed him money (I do not) for staying at a family condo while on a trip we went on together where we were not getting along (His parents paid for the condo not him). I do not think I should pay him for this either. Am I a narcissist? Please be honest with me.