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DH wants Email Communication

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Submitted by cruela25 on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 9:55pm

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with BM because she is very hostile and always wants to argue. What would be the best way to propose this to her? BM calls DH at work for non-emergencies, calls the home phone on weekends before 8am several times after ignoring the call, so on and on...

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Submitted by Jellybeam on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 10:04pm

I would say block her number at home from around 9 pm until 7 am on weekdays and maybe 10 am on weekends. Whoever answers the phone at work should ask who it is and then tell her hes with a client or whatever. If he has a cell phone, he can let voicemail get it. Do that first and then tell the bm she needs to get to know e-mail. Period.

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Submitted by cruela25 on Mon, 05/06/2013 - 10:06pm

BM is blocked from cell phone and text. Calling work is her way of going around the blocking.

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Submitted by SMof2Girls on Tue, 05/07/2013 - 9:09am

He should send her an email saying that all non-emergency related communication needs to happen through email. She is not to contact at him at his place of employment, and continuing to do so will be considered harassment.

If she continues to call and harass him, he needs to call the cops and file a report. Get enough of it documented, and he can take it to court and have a judge stop her.

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Submitted by Shook on Tue, 05/07/2013 - 6:37pm

DH & I kept filing police reports until we both became proud recipients of his & her restraining orders. Even with all the court & skid drama, it is so quiet not having to hear from abusive BM daily....ahhh we can breath again.