Dictating reasonable time for BM to call
Normally BM doesn't bother to call to check on SD and visa versa with DH, they have a toxic relationship and communication is normally only pick ups, or emergency matters. Lately however, as court has been going on for BM wanting more CS (she filed a few months ago but got denied so she's asking for more custody to increase child support) BM has been doing obviously everything she can do in the mean time to try and wedge her nose into my home life. Current court orders just state that calls/communication needs to be answered during reasonable time, BM chooses to call DH and than me if DH doesn't answer at 9pm, which is too late in my home for non-emergency calls as SD is settled into bed by 7:30 and DH and I enjoy quiet time to reconnect at night before bed. BM is aware that SD goes to bed early in our home, not always the case in hers but that's her choosing. Since CO states reasonable time can I or DH preferably send her a text or email stating non-emergency communication (phone/text/email) will be responded to between the hours of 8am-8pm? I feel like BM is trying to dictate/rule my home (since she's upset) by choosing to call this late at night and then bitching about it later on but SD isn't even awake to speak with.