I am also in Florida. Do NOT agree to this.

If you have to, tell her attorney that you will go to court. It's not the best scenario, but if you cannot afford an attorney, go pro se' and have your DH defend himself.

All of the forms are online, we did it, and its not very hard. It's better than just signing everything over, and then it goes in front of a judge.

They will try to get you to mediate first, but you don't have to agree to anything. A judge will throw that "6 year old's wishes" right out the door. They are trying to steamroll your DH, and he WILL regret it if he signs.
You can also file contempt charges on her if you have the documentation. Put her on the defensive isntead of the offensive. Has her attorney even filed anything with the courts? If not, this is just an empty threat for now.

I say absolutely not! DH went through this with his kids. It was drawn out & when the kids reached 12 & 15 years old, the judge deemed them accountable to choose whether or not they wanted to participate in visitation. They've chosen not to.

I would encourage your DH to fight this. At 6 years old, the child shouldn't have the option to choose. BM was given chance after chance to allow him access & the judge simply continued giving her warnings.

The reason I say continue the effort is because ultimately, my DH's kids have been the ones to make the choice. They were old enough to be aware that he's made every effort to be in their lives. They were old enough to understand that the judge ruled in THEIR favor. They will never be able to say that my DH abandoned them or walked away from them. While I believe that at 12 & 15 years old they are not mentally capable of understanding the consequences of the choice they made, they are old enough to know that it's theirs to own.

My DH presented pro se when he went. With a lawyer, you may have better luck. BM built her case with her "fear" of my DH because he's an "angry" man. She wrote in SS's complaint that SS is "terrified of his father". My thing was, SS was 15 years old. If he's being held accountable for a decision as big as this, why was he not accountable for writing out his own complaint & expressing his own feelings???

I believe that in the end it will be in the best interest of his daughter & their relationship for him to make every effort he can make. No need to beg for anything, but she needs to know that she's worth the effort.

Your DH needs to go ahead & take it to court. Throw out BM's modification & if BM is interfering with your DH's time, he needs to go ahead & file for a date to have her held in contempt. Nip it in the bud.

Good Lord. That will NEVER fly in court.

If you have to answer back, tell them you do not agree and this is not in the best interests of the child. You could also subtly suggest that you are VERY concerned about the parenting abilities of someone who leaves major life decisions to a 6 year old.

Her attorney must be a quack.

Do not sign it - take em to court!! A 6 year old can not make those kind of decisions my DD5 if offered a puppy every wednesday would stay with me and not go and see her dad to play with the puppy - hell if a pedophile offered my daughter a puppy she would gladly get in his car - young children can not be held accountable or make decisions when a piece of candy can sway them (we are not divorced but if this was our situation that is what I would do - I could even offer her a snickers and she would not go to see her dad and she loves her dad and we are married and in the same house but if I offered her a snickers to ignore her dad all night she would - she loves snickers - lol ) No judge is going to let a 6 year old decide if they want to see their father. Good luck and you are in my prayers Butterfly kisses!