My sd11, the one that over talks when she is around and interrupts or tries to Join adult conversations . at 8 she took the microphone at my wedding to sing a stupid love song. Always over shadows everything great about me and says "MY Mom" shit all the time this and that. It is so abvious now my sd11 is playing both sides. Last week she really talked hard to DH about her grandmother and mother showing favortism towards her older half sister. How her mom was stupid for letting her sister 13 get a belly button ring and hang out in a school night with dope smokers. Yes, it's priceless to hear what a Moran her mom is but then I figured something was up. I posted on here and a lot of the responses said she was playing both sides. This past weekend it was just mine and my h week for US, no MIL, no FIL. Was it? oHH NOOO. During our night out the phone rings and it was BM PHYSCO. She said to him she wasn't getting on to him but just letting him know that his daughter was getting lots of attention without her sister by her and the grandparents. It never f'ing fells. She has to cause some type of BS. The kid is playing both sides as I knew. She went back and told them everything her dad told her. He said he been fighting them showing favortism towards that other one all her life. He was basically telling her when he spoke to her that something's never change. He said BM said she wasn't getting on to him and was sorry for calling but. I will take advice from ST and tell sd next time she is over that her mother isnt In Our circle and I don't want to hear about her mom and it's direspectful . That drama shit gets on my nerves. Anyway, thanks for the vent. Have a nice day.