any perimenopausal women feel like this?
I am 47 and although I think I love FDH and we've been together since I turned 40, i am slowly losing respect for him and find him irritating to be around. Is it the hormones or just all the skid sh*t that I have to eat up everyday. He sort of has an 'on again off again cold' and this morning he kept sneezing over and over and I really got the sh*ts and felt like screaming at him! Wow am I losing it?
Do women feel differently about their partners when they are in menopause? Because if this is so, i can't see our relationship surviving! There is also a lot of resentment building between us over our kids (ds22 & sd21). I recently wrote an entry on the adult stepkids forum about employing my sd21. How difficult it is and how as her boss, i am questioned by FDH when i give her warning letters. Yesterday she stuffed up again and he defended her AGAIN.
You know i think we are heading for a break up because with the menopause, the skid sh*t and being in business together, all being considered, we won't make it.
If anyone has some advice who is in a similar situation, i would really appreciate it.