Am I crazy?
I been married for 5 years, we were doing great until Dec 2011 when my husband’s teenager daughter moved with us… Since the day she moved with us is been nothing but a nightmare! She lies, manipulates her dad doesn’t respect us at all. Two months ago she was arrested for assaulting her dad & running away from home. She smokes, uses drugs, dresses very revealing (she’s only 15), calls us names, doesn’t respect teachers/ authority, slams doors, gets detention & suspension from school (dress code violation)
I’m tired of my husband justifying her bad behavior. To make the situation even worst, every time she gets mad at him he takes it out on me… He screams at me, blames me for everything and even calls me names… No wonder his daughter doesn’t respect me either. I’m devastated. Hurts so much to see the way he treats me. His daughter screams obscenities and he doesn’t say anything to her because he doesn’t want to upset her. He’s on denial. I can’t take it anymore. I don’t understand how a parent sees 15 year old smoke cigarettes, use drugs, dress like a prostitute and do nothing!!!! I miss the guy he used to be, since she moved with us, he’s somebody else. I love him so much but I can’t take the lack of respect, screaming, obscenities, smoking, and her drug use anymore. I’m seriously thinking divorcing him. Am I crazy?