The smirking 12 year old girl is in the house!
So here we are......
I have disengaged, however in my home she cleans up her crap...... I refuse to accept her dirt in any part of my home. I have no worries about ensuring all of my home is clean, including her room.
If she hasn't cleaned her teeth and is walking around in dirty clothes, despite having lovely clean clothes availiable for her. I won't go out the door with her and so she stays home, bored.
She has taken from my family, and not given a toss about how kind they have been, even to the point of denying that a family member had put £50 in a card for her.
Tonight she has sat smirking at me, her dad has already had a go at her for her attitude and STILL it's not working.
She has upped the behaviour problems at age 12 and she lives here all of the time.
I am beyond sick of this kid that has just sat here in front of her father smirking at me.
He to be fair has accepted that I care for nothing with this kid aside from my home is clean, if she is to live in it.
Disengagement on my part has been the biggest eye opener for him. He used to say it was me, being narky....until he has had to cook her meals, wash her clothes, manage her attitude and lazy, conceited, bratty ways.
Is she for god damn real?
I would love some advice from all of you, in particular those that have seen the end results of giving up giving a shit!
I have a feeling that had I been engaged, we wouldn't be seeing this now.
Oh and I told her that her shitty attitude will get her a one way ticket out of my home and to her mothers by Sunday as I am not interested in her!!!! * yikes* #iwish