I've been on here more lately. I really like the advice I get. Sometimes I think I'm on here too much though. I think when I read about other people's situations I may become hypersensitive to my own. I'm also prone to rumination so I have to watch it. I don't want to spend all my time thinking about BM and the skids!
Yeah...sometimes I feel the same. Like maybe it fuels the frustration and rumination rather than solving it. But other times I feel it really helps me put my life in perspective.
I agree with this. I'm on a lot but I always try to wait a day or two before posting any of my personal dramas. Same with dealing with BM, it's so easy to see her fit in a pattern of another BM here I've read about or SS start behaving like a skid on here and I'm quick to jump to one conclusion instead of letting solutions form organically. I do enjoy the experiences people share on here and I like being able to know what's a pattern of behavior or knowing how others have felt in the same situation.
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I used to be. Ha! So i
I used to be. Ha! So i totally get where you are coming from.
But now that I don't give AF about BM or sociopath9, I just come here occasionally.
I used to be to, but I mostly
I used to be to, but I mostly read now. Thanks to just not caring about skids and many years of training on my part SO has BM mostly in check!
I've been on here more
I've been on here more lately. I really like the advice I get. Sometimes I think I'm on here too much though. I think when I read about other people's situations I may become hypersensitive to my own. I'm also prone to rumination so I have to watch it. I don't want to spend all my time thinking about BM and the skids!
Yeah...sometimes I feel the
Yeah...sometimes I feel the same. Like maybe it fuels the frustration and rumination rather than solving it. But other times I feel it really helps me put my life in perspective.
I agree with this. I'm on a
I agree with this. I'm on a lot but I always try to wait a day or two before posting any of my personal dramas. Same with dealing with BM, it's so easy to see her fit in a pattern of another BM here I've read about or SS start behaving like a skid on here and I'm quick to jump to one conclusion instead of letting solutions form organically. I do enjoy the experiences people share on here and I like being able to know what's a pattern of behavior or knowing how others have felt in the same situation.