Have times changed that much?
My ex was investigated for 3 mo for molesting his stepkid. My attorney said there was NOTHING I could do bc it wasn't our kids... Seriously! His wife was court ordered to parenting classes. They had a baby, the baby tested for laxatives in system & the wife had depression following birth for months (currently) There's 3 separate social workers that come to their house for drop in weekly visits for at least a year & then to be determined. For the molestation & new concerns with the baby. As far as molestation, victim was young & the bio parents reached an arrangement & created a safety plan to keep my ex from child or allegations. It's seriously f'd up. All of it.
My question is- my kids say their dad has told them this is normal, having social workers come, that it's a protection for children & babies bc of all the mothers in news hurting their kids. Also said he wants that "service" for me to protect them. I told my kids that IS IN NO WAY NORMAL, but clearly I'm their situation necessary. They contend that their stepmom has had friends that have this also. Wtf??? Am I right or am I completely out of touch with normal?
Also. They HATE stepmom, but they believe EVERYTHING their controlling dad tells them. That's why they contend it's normal.