Ok I have to rant a bit here. I follow SS12 on his TikTok and we only created an account to monitor SS on it a few years ago and honestly I think he has completely forgotten I am his friend on there and can see his content. His content is mainly his BMX riding and him playing sport so it's nothing too drastic. 

Last year for an early Christmas present his grandfather (BMs dad) bought him a second hand BMX bike for $600.  It's an insanely expensive bike. I have just seen on his TikTok he is trying to sell it now and wants to quit riding bikes. DH has always encouraged him to pursue bike riding, and I showed him he's trying to sell this insanely expensive second hand bike he only just received as a gift not even 4 months ago. And apparently he is getting a brand new PS5 for his birthday from 'BM' so someone she will con into getting for him.. probably her father again. Those are worth $500+ brand new and it astounds me these skids are not phased that amount of money are spent on them. 
 

For Christmas, SD received a $80 Stanley drink bottle from BM, but she goes to school with no drink bottle in her bag. Neither does SS, they both drink from fountains even on 40 degree days where they really need a drink bottle in their bag. But, they are not phased and think I am crazy they don't carry a drink bottle and they would rather money spent on $200 Nike air Jordan's on their feet instead. 

I have no idea if SD10 is returning to our house this weekend, I'm not holding my breath. The only window we have of her now is her Snapchat, but now she has deleted DH and myself from it. We can only see her public profile. I got so annoyed at her for deleting DH from her Snapchat ontop of refusing to come back here. I'm also still seething about the bullying and manipulative email BM sent, SD demands on only visiting and seeing my children and not me included, and now she has believed she outsmarted us again by not having DH on her Snapchat. Who the eff does she think she is? 

What is even worse I saw on her public profile that she was wants to achieve 'fame and followers'. But, her reels has been adjusted in her settings so that she purposely blocks them from DH, yet she would allow complete strangers she doesn't even know able to view her content and ontop her LOCATION! Are you serious?! 

I know this because I got so pissed off and thought fine SD let's see how 'smart' you really are. I created a fake account and of course she naively accepted me straight away and I could instantly track her movements from school to home all hours of the day and night, and I was really concerned and showed DH. If I can do it, predators can easily be tracking and worse contacting her too. Great parenting BM you POS. Although her Snapchat is public too with her promoting drinking and being half naked so SD has that as her role model. 
 

SD had reels with filters on of her dancing in her room, inappropriate songs and swearing in her reels and she's only 10 years old! So with DH approval (he was actually quite disappointed and deflated seeing it all) I reported her account and it got banned with a verified birth certificate. So all of that hard work of followers and public content is now all deleted. Take that SD. 

Not even 24 hours later she had another one up and running which we anticipated. Again, I added her on the fake account and she accepted but this time there is no public account and she's turned her location settings off so DH said that was a win. Maybe she's being a bit more careful and private settings activated now she got banned. We are monitoring her account anyway to make sure. 

But she still hasn't accepted DH as a friend (I blocked her on my account as I'm so infuriated with her) and she's blocked DH from stories with the caption 'no family' which is stupid as we can see it all anyway thanks to her accepting this fake account I created. It's basically her dancing in her room all hours of the night and stupid lip syncing to filthy songs but at least DH is aware and monitoring her, even though she has no idea. She promotes herself as a 'baddie' and it's all a bunch of immature school girl crap. 

But having this window of seeing into SD life now, proves she isn't suffering from anxiety, she's happily living over at BMs allowed to do what she likes, stays up late, gets spoilt with having friends over whenever she wants snap chatting until 1 am (sleepovers on school nights too), and her bull shit 'oh but I need more time here because I'm so hurt and such a victim of mean old stepmum floral' is just crap. She hates just 3 days a fortnight here of our rules, boundaries and accountability of her sneakiness, lies and manipulative behaviour taught and encouraged by BM.