BD9 separation anxiety
MBD9 (My Boyfriend's Daughter) still experiences, separation anxiety when leaving her mom's house (parents broke up 7 years ago when she was 2). They have the 3/2 agreement for the schedule. MBD dreads leaving her mother and even wants to keep wearing (for days) the clothes that she came with from her mom's house. Constantly asking if she can call her mom, not matter what fun place she's out, even if she's with her friends. Pretty disconnected from everyone except her mom. Sometimes she requests to stay with her mom on her dad days, but he doesn't let her.
It kills me to see BF rejected by MBD...what I would have done to have a father like him. He loves her like a good mom loves her kid. Even saves detailed memoirs for her since she was born. Makes unlimited sacrifices for her birthday matter what.
BF is looking to start her in therapy soon.
Any advice from anyone who has overcome this? Or knows someone who has? I need a little encouragement please.