So things have quieted down a bit. No police. No more APS investigators. A few more texts from my brother late at night telling me what an effing monster I am. Lol.
My parents house to be sold. I am sole trustee. For now.
House phone, which nobody uses anymore, in the office which now has become my father's room. My mother's calling has paid off. My father sending 1k to her because "they are destitute." Ok.
I guess I see the pattern here like a lot of dysfunctional families/ relationships. 60 yrs of emotional abuse. Cheating and affairs. Verbal abuse from my brother. So WHY WHY give them money?
It's hard for me not to feel resentful. My father living here. I was never close to him. I pay for everything.
He tells me I should speak with my mother. "Make peace."
At the risk of sounding like a heartless bitch I'd like to put him on a plane to live with them.
I need to not get in the middle. Not get angry that he is back to financing my brother.
But it's hard.