Child Catcher digging her own romantic grave
So it's no secret our BM is a giant fan of alinating the kids. She's a full time Disney mom so while both the kids are completely codependent ( SD7 got off milk bottles at 5 due to us not her , she still cosleeps , etc) she also tries to have a life but fails because mommy isn't home
The backfire has begun and I'm sitting here with popcorn. So BM has for lack of a better term a boytoy. He is my age ( she's older than DH by a few years - accused him of being a pedo by dating me all around a fun time). We never gave her flack on seeing a guy that has a girlfriend that's half her age, being around the kids without vetting it because we frankly don't care unless something smells fishy. He's a f--k toy and he isn't living there. Trust me SD7 blabs and he cannot do sleepovers.
Well it's our weekend and SD4 starts in on how she may want to stay home to DH ( do not get me started on the lack of co and letting the kids call shots. ) But BM sort of apparently pushed her to go. At least until 9 or so.
After dinner SD4 keeps missing her mom and telling us over and over. We are being accommodating offering coloring , games etc. But it's a constant. Well DH is getting sick of the facade and tries to get BM to take her sooner because good God she raised this codependent child and this is her bed to lie in.
I can't wait til she gets a serious suitor . Like I'll be giggling how this bit her in the face. Good luck getting someone to move in with two kids constantly pulling on your skirts due to your lack of boundaries and using your kids as a crutch. I mean it's cute that the kids are here whole life but considering this goes against her self published book on being happy with your "gifts" this will be fun.
Is it sad she's ruined the relationship of sd4 and DH ? Yes . But DH didn't gain the balls to claim jack so I get to see it unfold like a comedy / drama