Going from 2 to 1 SKs during visitation...
I've been thinking about how much different it will be when OSS is off to college and YSS come overs for visits with DH. I've had a few different scenarios run through my head: YSS never coming over for a full weekend again, YSS coming over for every weekend, YSS asking to live with us, etc.
YSS is very close to OSS, and I know it's going to be a pretty big shock to the system when OSS leaves. I'm worried about YSS living with BM without OSS as a buffer. YSS has a lot of BM and DH's bad qualities (not to say he is a bad kid, because he's pleasant, just much more an angsty teen than OSS), which just fuels the "what ifs" even more.
For those who have gone through this kind of transition, what was your experience with the younger SK(s)? What changed with the SK or BM/BD or your SO? Any words of wisdom or things you wish you knew before it happened?