I know this is a little minor compared to some of your problems but here we go.

Ok ss14 is in football and he started the last game and I am proud of him b/c this is the first year he has played and he started that is a big deal! The problem is that dh never knows what time he will get off and the games are always on thursday nights, he has to get up at 4:30 am every morning and he goes to bed at 8:30 every night. Ok so the games always start at 7 and goes until around 9:30 or 10. On top of that all games are at least an hour away as that is where bm lives. So that means poor dh can;t go to his games so he thought he could give ss13 a camcorder to record it for him. BM started off all negative about it and said she doesn't like the idea and he just needs to come to the games period! Of course she knows that I work nights and wouldn't be with him. Dh told her he can;t as he drives a truck and he needs to get enough sleep b/c he is very afraid of falling asleep at the wheel which is why he has never gone to work tired, so nothing to do with me. So now I don't know if dh gets to have it recorded or what as bm hasn't said one way or the other yet. GGRRR