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DH tells me one thing & decides to do the opposite with BM

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Submitted by livinthedream on Thu, 07/23/2009 - 1:16pm

Another one of those decisions that I thought I had a say so in in regard to sk's. However, just saw an email from BM that stated that DH told sk's different story than what he told me. He better have a real good reason for this one!!

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Sia's picture

Submitted by Sia on Thu, 07/23/2009 - 1:38pm

that sucks!

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Submitted by justme2 on Thu, 07/23/2009 - 3:18pm

I know what you mean. I finally gave up on giving any advice when it comes to the skids. Then when something screws up - they get in trouble or whatever - I just look at my FH and say - HHMMM... maybe if you would of taken my suggestion...

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Submitted by Abigail on Thu, 07/23/2009 - 4:25pm

Agree, DH better have good reason. Is it possible that BM would lie about this?

"Evil Stepmothers aren't born, it comes with the territory"

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Submitted by OldTimer on Thu, 07/23/2009 - 4:49pm

I had a bit of a problem, but not that DH would lie, he just won't involve me. We had some drama at times over it. The best thing I did was just let him make plans and kept out of it... then when the drama unfolded, because things started to colloid, etc. I'd sit there trying to keep a straight face. Eventually, he learned. So what's funny is that BM now emails DH, who in turn just forwards the email to me, and I check 'our schedule' to see if 'her plans' will fit in with 'our plans', then send him a response, which he then copies and sends back to her... She has no idea that really the person she is making plans with is me! I'm the one that says- yeah or nah! Not DH! ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!

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